She has sex with men she barely knows and doesn’t use birth control.
Her current boyfriend sells drugs, and I think she is using them too.
I’m going to be real with you for a second: I’m single.
Say you swiped right on a hot guy (or lady) on Tinder, and the two of you match.
You start talking, realize you have a few things in common, exchange numbers, talk for a few days and finally arrange to meet in person.
By the time the phone rang I had decided to get rid of her before she could get rid of me. I felt so ridiculous, but the pain, the fear, and the gut-wrenching poker in my gut were very real.
Wanting to die but not being able to kill myself because I’d feel too much guilt for those I’d hurt, and then feeling angry about that so I cut myself or take an overdose to make all the feelings go away. One night I called my girlfriend and she said she would call me back because she was watching TV. It hurt so bad because the day before, I had started to believe that she really loved me.
An unstable sense of self is characteristic of the disorder, along with impulsiveness and demanding behavior.
Substance abuse and promiscuity are also common, and may be connected.It’s even harder when you’re in your 20s and have a serious and potentially unstable mental illness.Perfecting the art of Tinder small talk, speaking to and texting a potential date, surviving the actual date and then dealing with the inevitable “ghosting” that seems to happen more often than not these days — not to mention the whirlwind of emotions you experience when you do actually snare someone — can be exhausting for anyone, to say the least.Researchers have found that BPD symptoms and diagnosis successfully predict dating satisfaction and stress, adolescents’ conflict with romantic partners, domestic violence, and separation and divorce.Typically individuals with BPD have difficulty trusting others.If you are emotionally attached to your BPD partner you will need to learn some survival tools in order to pick up the shattered pieces of yourself and put the wreckage of this trauma in the past.